Monday, October 16, 2006
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You’ve heard of this new thing, right? It’s called friend divorce. At first I thought it was a joke, but now that it seems like it actually happened to me I get it. I feel a little hurt and betrayed and I have an urge to steal someone’s pet. That’s what people who get divorced do, right? If no kids are involved they fight over the dog. Well, luckily no dog in this case. One of my very good friends (who also happens to be my ex) just wrote a blog entry directly to me, telling me to leave him alone b/c our friendship was causing a strain in his relationship with his current gf. Now, normally I would tell someone in a situation such as that to grow the f- up and stop letting your dick control what you do or who you’re friends with. But, this is a bit more personal. I can understand his gf’s point of view. Hell, I would feel insecure and jealous of me too. I am awesome. But, regardless of my awesomeness, it’s sad that it has come to this. I really value the fact that we’ve been able to stay friends after all the shit (and I do mean some stinky, nasty shit) that went down. I certainly don’t think that I could ever be with someone who tried to control who I was friends with. But that’s just how it is and I understand, even if I don’t agree with it. With people who I consider my true friends though, it doesn’t matter what the extenuating circumstances are; I will always consider them a friend. So, Ben, if you even read this – take it to heart. I’ll still be here when you need someone to talk to. That goes for my other peeps, too. I value my friends a lot and even though I give people a hard time sometimes and crack unfunny jokes at the expense of others, I’ll always have your back when you need me. But, honestly, if you ever write a blog about me, it better not be to tell me that you’re divorcing me. Not cool. I’m a lil sad now… |
